I’ve never been a vegetarian or a vegan, I like meat, but as a Muslim man in Ningbo, I decided not to eat meat that wasn’t halal, (although there are exceptions to the rule), which made ” MeiYou ” one of the first words I had to learn, it literally means ” doesn’t have “, so I could ask for food with no meat. There are other important words to learn before you go to China, like water and things you need to survive!
But MeiYou is the most common word you will hear in China if you are a stranger…
Asking for directions.
I was trying to go to the mall to buy a cup and a plate for my appartment. One of the other foreign teachers told me I had to take any bus that starts with the numbers 33 for 2 stops and I would find the big supermarket “Vanguard”. 2 bus stops later, there was nothing but a bus stand and an old lady.
“Ni hao! I am trying to find V A N G U A R D…” I ,hopefully, articulated. But the lady mumbled something and left. She said many Chinese words but I only knew “MeiYou“. I crossed the street and took the bus back to school, where my appartment was, only to find Vanguard was 1 stop away not 2. Damn it Kevin! I had already missed the stop so I decided to go another day. When my friend asked me about the plate, I told her “MeiYou“.
My trainers are ruined.
I did a lot of walking in the first couple of weeks and it is always raining in tropical Ningbo. I had ruined the 2 pairs of shoes I had brought with me and I had to get good shoes to withstand the showers and the walking. I went to the mall with my friend.
“Ni hao! Do you have this in my size?” I said holding the shoe in one hand and pointing at myself with the other.
The shopping assistant laughed and called the other shopping assistants in the shop. After a lot of Chinese and giggles between them. She started talking to us in Chinese.
“Ting bu dong” I said waving my hand a little. Ting bu dong means I am listening but I can’t understand. It’s an easy way to make people know that you don’t speak Chinese.
“Ahahaha, ting bu dong …. (more fast Chinese)” she said.
“YES! Ting bu dong hehe!”
She took out her phone and typed something then she showed me. She had typed CHINESE CHARACTERS!
I tried to show her the size on the shoe then I typed 45… the shopping assistant again laughed so hard and shouted “45. MEIYOU AHAHAHA..”
2 Malls and over 10 shops later, I got new shoes.
Where is your homework?
My students were the funniest people I met in China. They were very smart and we managed to communicate in spite of the language barrier. I rarely gave out homework but when I did, it was so hard not to burst out of laughing in the middle of the classroom when the class clown said “MeiYou“.
The list goes on and on, it can be frustrating at times but if you MeiYou the local people back or MeiYou your boss like I did when she asked us to dance to “Back it Up” in the cultural festival, you will survive. You can approach other foreigners and start a conversation by a MeiYou joke. Like a curse, the word haunts you in the streets of the crowded, polluted and noisy yet loved so dearly, Ningbo.